Another Friday night and weekend is here and I find myself once again wondering what to do with myself. The single life just isn’t working for me – I’m not adapting very well. I have no parents anymore, nor any grandchildren to visit with.
I would imagine being single and young could be a very exciting time in one’s life – going out with friends to clubs or movies and just hanging out.
When one is older though, the single life is painful – no one to visit with on evenings or weekends because everyone else is married or in a relationship and they do things together. I am the odd person out.
I have tried thinking of options, but none are appealing. Sitting alone at movies or restaurants, watching all the couples – no thanks. Ditto for coffee shops. I have tried working on crafts, gardening, laundry, and other general busywork but that’s all it is – busywork.
How I would love a friend to hang out with the odd evening. How I miss my husband – my date, my friend, my partner. Even if we did nothing, just being together was enough. I would love that feeling again. At this point in my life I’m not looking for romance – I just want a hang out buddy to go out for coffee, or go the museum, or even see a movie. Someone to go for a drive with in my classic car. Just a friend, that’s all. We all need a friend.
What do you do on the lonely evenings?